You do want your girlfriend to get sexual enjoyment and achieve a real orgasm,instead of a fake one, but why cannot you give her this pleasure? Perhaps you do not know how to do that. As well you might think that she must let you know what she wants, and the fact that she does not ask you to do anything means she does not need anything especial. This is not true. She is ashamed of speaking about her preferences. So what is she ashamed to speak about?
1.She wants you to stimulate her erogenous zones longer and more gently. Do not think that kissing her nipple is enough to make her aroused. Do love each her sweet spot, do caress it until she gets wet. Make good use of your fingers, palms and tongue, or use some sex toys, for instance an egg vibrator which can be used for vaginal, clitoral and anal stimulation. Never penetrate her without being sure she wants you to.
2. Many women cannot achieve orgasm without additional clitoral stimulation, no matter how long intercourse lasts. As well many of them are ashamed of stimulating their clitorises during intercourse. Do provide her with clitoral stimulation! Put her hands on the clitoris and her to stimulate herself. As well you can use a sex toy, for instance a strap-on clitoral vibrator (a butterfly vibe) which will allow her to have clitoral stimulation hands-free. One more cute sex toy is a cock ring with clitoral teaser which will allow you to make your penis hander and to provide her with clitoral stimulation at the same time!
3.Did you cum? Congratulations! But are you sure she achieved orgasm? If she didn’t than do make her orgasm, she deserves satisfaction! Give her oral pleasure or use a sex toy on her (for instance a dildo or a rabbit vibrator), do whatever you want and can, but make her orgasm! She needs satisfaction!
