
Human Sexuality
Oct 13, 2009
Human Sexuality
We have no limits for human sexual response. We can respond to the same or opposite sex. We can have sexual response when we are alone or with someone. We respond to living beings and inanimate objects, since human sexuality includes all the senses: smell, touch, sound, sight, and taste. Sexuality always involves imagination, fantasy, and imagery.
Thus, boys substantially tend to determine their sexuality through private talks, scrutinizing erotic magazines, making out sexual toys, and surely trying and making errors. Girls gain their sexual knowledge through chatters with friends, reading love stories, peering into movies, and practical experience. Generally speaking, for men intercourse is often a combination of pleasure, sexual release, and power. For women, sex is often intimacy, affection, and pleasure. Even terms men and women use while talking about sex are quite different: male use aggressive even hostile terms, while female select gentle, loving, and even spiritual words. In other words women make love while men get laid.
Therefore, these attitudes and values affect the manner, in which the genders approach sexuality and significantly contribute to their appreciation of sex act. Furthermore, these values affect the way men and women perceive themselves and how they view each other. Generally speaking, men establish their self-assertion through performance. From the very childhood to adulthood they measure themselves by such things as how far they spit, how fast they run, penis and salary size, staying power in bed, and the number of women they have "conquered." One way or another, performance matters for them. On the contrary women generally measure themselves by attractiveness, the power held by men attracted to them, and by how they are treated by these men. If they are treated passionately - they are queens, but if they are treated poorly - they feel victims.
Consequently both men and women bring these attitudes to their bedroom, playing out their roles as performer and seductress. While making love, male is concerned with whether he will perform well enough or whether he will fail. Great help here can give various sex toys. They will vary your sexual life and raise your self esteem. For centuries people used different devices to be more loving, excited and satisfied. They invented sex toys to fill his or her partner up or balance organs asthenia. These toys will perfect any intercourse and impart any relations with absolutely new and unexplored trace.