Love making

Love making vs. Dancing

Love-making is similar to dancing. Each person may or may not be a good dancer. One person may be a great dancer and the other may be terrific. However, it is how they dance together that matters. Some people can dance well with a sex toy, but not with a partner. To be beautiful and satisfying, dancing demands cooperation, communication, and consideration.

No couple expects to dance well together, no matter how well either one may dance alone, without practicing together. It does not matter how easy it might be to dance with other partners, one's current partner is the one that matters if you wish to become a good dance team.

All of this is true for love-making as well. Yet we often believe that good love-making should "come naturally," without education. We covet beliefs that somehow people should know how to make love together and should not have to talk about it with the intent of improving our style so that it is mutually satisfying. Clearly, if your dance partner continuously stepped on your toes and was unwilling to discuss the matter, it would not take long before you either stop dancing or find a different partner or silicon substitute. Yet the majority of couples does not communicate about their love-making and are not open to exploring their sexuality with the help of some sex devices. Even the most experienced lovers often practice poor love-making strategies and criticize any sex toys experimenting. People, especially men, become defensive when their partner wants to discuss their sex life or offer something new as if they were about to be criticized.

Communication between dance partners and lovers is essential for having a satisfying experience. The partners must frequently communicate verbally and non-verbally with one another in order to learn to anticipate each other's moves. With insufficient practice, the dance of love seems effortless. Lovemaking should be fun, playful, affectionate, intimate, and fulfilling. When something goes awry, either because of faulty communication, inappropriate attitudes, or antiquated beliefs, a sexual dysfunction may emerge.

The uniqueness of love making is an enigma that is difficult to solve. When it comes to pleasuring woman's sexuality, there is no one-way to please her with one style or approach. Each woman is different, needing individual attention to her desires and needs, where giving her pleasure becomes an exploration in what makes this one unique person a sexually satisfied dancer.