Do you stimulate his anus?
I never thought I knew so little about sex and about how to give a man enjoyment. You might laugh at me, but I thought that only gays loved anal sex. Indeed, I could not even suppose that a heterosexual man could love anal penetration! So can you imagine my reaction when my boyfriend asked me to insert my finger into his anus? I was really shocked. He realized I new nothing about male erogenous zones and explained to me a few things.
Men do love anal stimulation as anus is full of very sensitive nerve endings. However, this is not the most important thing. Male anus contains prostate which is very sensitive to sexual stimulation, perhaps as sensitive as the G-spot. So men love not only anal sex which implies that they penetrate the female partner's anus. As well they want to be penetrated anally, though many of them do not dare express this desire being afraid of the partner's reaction. I can't say they are wrong, I was shocked, why other woman should not?
I dared try stimulate his anus with my finger. Well, I cannot say I succeed, but I saw he was getting enjoyment. He did not orgasm (he orgasmed, but after that, when I performed sex on him), but he liked what I was doing.
He told me he loved using anal sex toys to stimulate the prostate - there are especial bended vibrators which are perfect for prostate stimulation. We began using anal sex toys when making love, and the most interesting thing is that I tried a sex toy, I mean a butt plug. Before I thought that there was nothing more awful than anal sex. But when I tried a butt plug I realized that I love feeling that something is inserted inside me!
Any anal play, whether it is anal sex or use of anal sex toys is very enjoyable! Dare try!
