What not to do in bed

What not to do in bed

It would be quite nice if men could read women's thoughts. This would prevent many couples from making quite frequent mistakes in bed. As often as not, men's behavior while making love is far from being proper, to say the least of it.

This article has been written exactly for men who to wish satisfy their ladies in the best possible way without failures. Here you will find quite frequent mistakes men are inclined to make in bed being enthusiastic to please their female partners. Foolish things men do while making love being lead by erroneous ideas bring about anything, but the partner's satisfaction.

Perhaps most experienced seducers are familiar with the information given below. However, most men as soon as get in bed with a woman forget about the simplest and the most evident bed behavior rules. That is why we are going to remind them of some certain things they should pay attention to when going to have sex with their girlfriends.

Make her ready for penetration

Always (I said ALWAYS) make sure your girlfriend is wet enough before you are going to insert something in her. It does not matter what exactly you are going to insert, whether it is your penis, finger or some intricate sex toy. May be your girlfriend gets aroused in a few moments. But do not forget to spend these moments on stroking and licking her erogenous zones. Otherwise you will not manage to pleasurably and painlessly do what you were going to do.

Haste does make waste. At best she will not get even minor pleasure. At worst she will have to suffer from quite painful sensations which will prevent you from making love the next day.

Do not worry, you do not necessarily have to perform cunillingus while foreplay. But if you are going to touch her main erogenous zone with your fingers, than it would not be out of place to moisten them with your or her saliva. Watch her reaction. If your caress makes her flinch and move aside, than this does not necessarily a sign of great excitement and arousal.

Do not thank her for pleasure she gave you with words

"Thank you!" after sex makes a woman feel like she is a prostitute. The words "This was the best blow job in my life!" will hardly make your girlfriend proud of the result she achieved. Such expressions sound humiliating rather than laudatory.  That is why you should try to express your thankfulness in another way, unless you are playing "a bad girl and her client". Erotic massage would be quite suitable for this purpose.

You can whisper some nice words in her ear, she will be really glad to listen to them, only provided you are speaking about her rather than about oral pleasure she gave you.

Take into consideration one more thing. Never deny your girlfriend after oral sex. Unfortunately, men quite often make all possible and impossible efforts to avoid kissing their partners after a well done blow job. Such a behavior hurts women quite much. By the way, it is quite likely to make your date the last one. Or you will make your girlfriend dislike oral sex. Do you want to deprive yourself of such a great pleasure?

When should I cum?

Actually, an occasional premature ejaculation is not considered a disorder. Naturally once or twice you can explain your failure by being astonished with your girlfriend's beauty and sex appeal. But if you are going to do the same every time you make love, than you risk to lose good relationships with her, at least sexual ones. Why the hell she should have sex with you if this does not make her satisfied?

Fortunately, modern medicine and pharmacology can effectively help you to cope with your problem. So do not waste time and visit a doctor. And you must not necessarily wait for the treatment's results. To make your girlfriend pleased with your sexual relationships while you are taking medical treatment you can use some sex toys. Did not you know that some sex toys can help you satisfy your female partner in case if you orgasmed before her? Than it is no wonder why she is thinking of finding another lover.  Sex toys, tongue and fingers are your best friends!

So the longer - the better?

No doubt, you heard about multiple orgasms in women. Perhaps a generous, but unnecessary idea can come to your mind: you might be going to make your partner orgasm for ten-fifteen times.

I would like to warn you against such a behavior.  To understand what I mean you must be aware of female orgasm's types. Female orgasm can be clitoral and vaginal one. If your partner experiences clitoral orgasm, than her after orgasm sensations do not differ much from yours: this is out of the question to continue making love to her without at least a short break. Vaginal orgasm is a little another one: you can go on caressing your girlfriend after she orgasmed. But anyway you should not be too enthusiastic - two-three or four orgasms will be enough for her full satisfaction. Your further actions will prevent your partner from sitting and walking the next day (I mean this will be quite painful). Be generous, give your partner pleasure, but do not overdo making use of your penis, tongue and sex toys. She orgasmed for two-three times and you ejaculated? That's fine! Do not take a sex toy out of your night table. Otherwise she will not be going to make love to you at least for a week justly thinking she should not have sex before she forgot about the previous one.

Do not insist on experiments!

A woman can do almost everything for you if you ask her properly. The main difficulty is that this "properly" is understood by different genders in different way. Do not chase your partner reminding her that you have not tried yet let us say anal sex or an intricate sex toy you saw on the Internet: such an idea might seem to her awful, rather than amazing. You can put on her table a magazine with an article describing your fantasy. Who knows, may be she will be the first to suggest a new experiment!