Masturbation

Masturbation teaches you orgasm

What a woman's sexual happiness depend on? No doubt, it depends on whether her partner cares for her pleasure or not. Those women whose lovers do everything for their enjoyment are always in a good mood and never lose optimism. Another, less lucky ones spend the whole their life in search of the desired satisfaction. Then some of them, being already older then forty give up their dull lovers and find another, more skillful ones. In this case they are very likely to get astonished with their sensations. "What was it?" - they ask after a passionate sex date. In fact this was female orgasm, in other words a sexual climax, a pleasurable psychological or emotional response to prolonged sexual stimulation

Doctors and other specialists distinguish three types of female orgasm: clitoral, vaginal and outside – genital one. Clitoral orgasm can be achieved through stimulation of the clitoris with lips or tongue. One more good way to achieve clitoral orgasm is masturbation. Masturbation can be performed with fingers, strong stream of water or with help of some sex toys. There are sex toys designed exactly for this purpose, for example special clitoral stimulators or the rabbit vibrator. This vibrator is called so because besides the main part it features “ears” which tickle and tease clitoris while the shaft is vibrating inside the vagina. Such an intensive dual stimulation is possible only with a sex toy, rather than during a usual sexual intercourse. 

Vaginal orgasm requires stimulation of the vagina with the penis, fingers or a sex toy, such as a dildo or a vibrator. By the way, too intensive stimulation makes orgasm short and sometimes quite weak. And on the contrary, according to most women's opinion, orgasm, if achieved slowly is usually longer and stronger. Let your partner know about this.

Outside genital orgasm occurs while kissing, embracing and other caress which does not involve stimulation of genitals. But only one of ten women can achieve such an orgasm. What a pity!

Usually female orgasm lasts about 10 seconds. In some cases it can last up to a minute. Besides single orgasm there is a multiple one. "Waves of pleasure" roll one after another almost uninterruptedly during about ten minutes and drive a woman into complete ecstasies.

Almost every man achieves orgasm during intercourse. What to women, only every forth of them experiences the desired enjoyment. Circa 50 per cent of women often reach orgasm; about 30 per cent do this quite rarely and 17 per cent of females never cum.

Actually, many women do not know how to orgasm. Even very inventive partners cannot satisfy them. The fact is that the main erogenous zone in humans is brain and problems occur due to women's inability to concentrate on their sensations. For example, some of them while making love think about their appearance. Or on the contrary, they are worried about their orgasm so much that miss pleasure they could get from sexual contact with a beloved person.

Another fact is that women must learn how to orgasm. They must study their body, peculiarities of their sexual response and other features related to their sexuality. It has been said above that one of the best ways to learn how to achieve the desired satisfaction is masturbation. If a woman orgasms while masturbating than she has nothing to worry about - she is not frigid by nature, she really can get pleasure from intimate relationships.

Do not be ashamed of masturbation! Masturbation is natural, it gives you pleasure, it helps you study your sexuality. What could be shameful about this? Masturbate in your bed or while taking a bath. Stimulate your erogenous zones with your gentle fingers! If you wish to achieve a stronger enjoyment, than try some sex toys. Sex toys are really worth trying even if you never used them before. These devices can make you realize that sex is much more pleasurable and exciting than you ever could suppose.

While masturbating you will find out what motions and kinds of caress you like best. Let your partner know about your discovery. Are you ashamed of speaking about the way you learned this? Then refer to a book you have read, or to one of your girlfriend's experience. Suggest your partner something new. The same is about sex toys. You might realize you would like to use them during partnered sex. That's fine! Sex toys will help your partner stimulate you as you wish!

Female sexuality is a mystery. It has many secrets to be revealed. And that is great. Search for new sensations and impressions. Your sex will never be dull!