Vaginal orgasm

How to achieve vaginal orgasm

Lots of women heard of vaginal orgasm, but have never experienced it. Many of them wonder whether it is possible to learn to achieve it. Actually it is possible, but first of all you should answer the question: what do I need vaginal orgasm for?

This is an important question as in fact many women do not need vaginal orgasm. They worry about it for various reasons which have nothing to do with their own pleasure. Some women consider themselves to be abnormal only because of the fact that they achieve clitoral orgasm instead of vaginal. This attitude towards their sexuality in most cases is caused by men who being very selfish think that their girlfriends should achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse without any additional stimulation.

Some women wish to achieve orgasm being under influence of Sigmund Freud's theory stating that a woman must experience vaginal orgasm, otherwise she is not considered mature enough. Being eager to become "real women" poor ladies blame themselves for being abnormal and after each intercourse which does not end with vaginal orgasm run into depression.

Dear ladies, stop worrying! The main thing is to be satisfied with your sex life, no matter what type of orgasm you achieve. According to some statistics vagina is the main erogenous zone only in 12(!) per cent of women. Can about 88 per cent of women be immature or abnormal? Of course, this is impossible. Your boyfriend should be aware of this fact and of course, he should stop being so lazy. He must care not only for his pleasure, but for yours as well. You do need clitoral stimulation and you should have it every time you make love.

Does it mean that learning to achieve vaginal orgasm is not worth even trying? No, it does not. You do want to vary your sensations, to enrich your sexual experience, don't you? Do try to follow tips given below, but please, do not despair if they don't work. There are plenty of ways to spice up your sex life and to vary your erotic sensations!

Actually we suggest you two ways through which you can learn to achieve vaginal orgasm, these are vaginal exercising and masturbation.

Vaginal exercising

It has been proven that women with well toned vaginal muscles are much more likely to achieve vaginal orgasm and to get pleasure from sex in general. How can you exercise your vaginal muscles? We suggest you using especial sex toys, which are called vaginal balls. What are these?

Vaginal balls are a female sex toy which is used both for getting erotic pleasure and for vaginal exercising. They look like two (sometimes more) balls connected with a thread. The balls are hollow and filled with small beads which create very pleasurable vibration. How to use this sex toy for vaginal exercising?

We suggest you two exercises

1.Insert the balls into the vagina. After that stand up and with your vaginal muscles try not to allow the balls to fall down. Exercise every day, and every time you exercise try to retain the sex toy in the vagina for longer time.

2.Again insert the balls into vagina. Then try to take the balls out with the thread and simultaneously try to retain them in vagina. Exercise every day for 15 minutes and you will achieve results very soon.

As we have said above there is one more way to learn to achieve vaginal orgasm is to masturbate. For this purpose your solo sex should include vaginal stimulation with penis-shaped sex toys, such as dildos and vibrators. During masturbation with these sex toys you replace penis by a toy and imitate sexual intercourse. Thus you get more familiar with your body and realize what gives you the strongest sensations.

While masturbating with a sex toy you do not have to care for your partner's pleasure and reactions. You can relax completely and concentrate on your sensations. Once you achieved orgasm through playing with a sex toy you can teach your partner to give you enjoyment by letting him know what he should do. And try to be as relaxed during partner sex as during masturbation.

There is no guarantee that you will learn to achieve vaginal orgasm. But it has been said above that vaginal orgasm is not vitally necessary. Enjoy sex life in all its variety!