Sexuality Standards

Sexuality Standards

We don't know much about sexuality but pretend to know everything and even try to introduce certain standards. Women enlarge breasts and reduce hips - why have they decided that it's more erotic? Every plump and skinny, every beauty and plain have equal chances to find her "prince".

Sexuality standarts of every particular person - just a part of his individuality; while his sexual life - a particle of his life on the whole. I.e., males looking for sexy and temperamental females should be ready for restless life full of upheavals. And females seeking passionate and tireless males should be aware that one day his temperament will gush over the marriage. Males looking for appeasable and faithful women can hardly count on passion and ardent temperament. And females seeking for well-off men should understand that most successful men have most irregular working hours.

Majority of people intuitively understand such things. Plain and easy-tempered girls are usually got married earlier. Men choose exactly this type to create a family.

Girls are more inclined to illusions. Good few of twenty-years dream to find rich, handsome, passionate, faithful, ambitious and practical man in one person. Twenty-year-old boys take a sober view of life. Those of them who don't make any special career get married early.

There are couples where husband is more attractive, handsome and sexy than his wife. Curiously enough these couples have good forecast. Young and healthy man is so sexually active that his woman's appearance is of little importance for him. On the other hand if his wife loves and sincerely admires him, and is ready to have children, there are all constituents for happy marriage. Thus, regardless of the popular opinion, beauty cannot ensure happiness.

If all the men were attracted by same thing, it would have been unified, measured, weighed and declared norm long time ago. But it isn't like that. Fashion dictates us how to look today: thin and slim or thick and plump, small and pale or chubby and flashy.

There are no definite stimulants. Moreover, everything woman makes to change her appearance, she makes not for men at all. The latter just patiently tolerate all our quirks and even manage to discern something and choose his woman despite thick makeup.

The choice often amazes and bewilders. It shows that there are no unique sexuality standards, and, underestimating males, women are guided by stereotypes, which, however, can be easily broken.